The pain of rejection
When people experience social rejection, the same areas of the brain get activated as when they feel physical pain.*
Imagine showing up every day to work despite a persistent headache and:
🔹trying to focus
🔹contributing with your ideas
🔹attempting to use your talents and creativity
It takes a toll.
We all need to take responsibility and work towards finding concrete behavioral cures to create a response to the feeling of not #belonging.
In additional to systemic changes that need to be addressed in the first place, we can increase the feeling of `#inclusion by individual behavior.
Among other, these are simple yet effective ways to make people feel seen and included:
🔹applying #microaffirmations
🔹using inclusive language
🔹demonstrating #allyship
🔹being authentically curious
🔹appreciating people for their unique contributions
Source: Naomi Eisenberger, Matthew Lieberman, Kipling D Williams “Does Rejection Hurt? An fMRI Study of Social Exclusion”
#diversity #różnorodność